30 May, 2025

True Breeder

*Raffles & Alice Payne

Shortly after the death of Alice Payne, on January 27, 1969, Bill and Mae Munson wrote a memorial, which was published in the February 1969 issue of Arabian Horse News. Within the piece, I found the following, which captured my interest,
"Alice was a true breeder, one who demanded perfection. She picked a type, a bloodline and stuck to them. She had no time for the run-of-the-mill breeder, who vacillated from day to day."

In everything I have read and understood about Alice Payne, *Raffles, was the horse she not only chose; using his genetic influence exclusively, she founded a dynamically unique  breeding program (she called it precision pedigrees). Her son, Bob, said that she looked to *Raffles as "the embodiment of animate perfection" and that in her eyes, "*Raffles fit together perfectly, balanced and he was biologically able to reproduce this." So, why *Raffles? What was it about the horse that motivated her so? Was there another horse that could have garnered the same level of esteem that she felt for *Raffles? Had she met the Egyptian stallion Nazeer, would she have felt similarly? Initially, she purchased a *Raseyn daughter, Rasrah, in foal to Abu Farwa. When Rasrah foaled her Abu Farwa filly (Alice's 1st registered foal), Alice consulted with Herb Reese, the manager of Kellogg Arabians, who recommended that she breed Rasrah to Alla Amarward but Alice soon realized that this match was not going to produce the type of horse that excited her, that created a desire to breed Arabian horses. I think that right here, within the Alice Payne timeline, was the single, most pivotal crossroad Alice ever faced in her whole equine life. It was here that she courageously realized that none of the horses that she had seen and purchased up to this point, fit the mental picture of the horse she imagined. None. It was at this point, she became open enough to try something new, which led her to discover Carl Raswan and all that he was about, because it was through him, that she learned of *Raffles, a paternal sibling of *Raseyn, the only horse she had liked at Kellogg's.  As soon as she saw *Raffles in person, at Selby Stud, she immediately realized that he was EXACTLY the unique horse that she had been looking for and it would be through him that she would finally breed the type of horse she envisioned. She was that sure of it. 100%. This is the moment, when the "true breeder" broke out of the shell, paving the way for the almost 200 horses she would eventually breed, including the mare Celeste, who carried nearly 87.5% of *Raffles' blood and, a daughter, granddaughter and great-granddaughter, in one individual! Jimmie Dean once said that if Alice could have cloned *Raffles, she would have! 56 years since Alice Payne's life came to an end, we still remember her and we are grateful for all the horses we have come to know and love because of the choices she made so long ago, when she stood  at the crossroads of her life.


***there are a variety of sources that I need to credit like Mary Jane Parkinson's (I love her, been reading her since forever) Foundation Breeder's Series on Alice Payne & family, published in the May 2003 issue of Arabian Horse World, the April 1977 Arabian Horse Journal (Raffles issue) and the 1969 Arabian Horse News issue. And of course, Julie Koch, through her Facebook group, Reliving Arabian Horse History. Without any of these sources, the blog would not have been possible****

25 May, 2025

My Life was the Message

 

Maar Ibn Ali (Ruminaja Ali x RDM Maar Hala)

"Breed the best to the best and hope for the best" is a principle that is key in the world of horses, more so in Thoroughbred race horse breeding than in any other equine sector. I'm sure, dear reader, that you have heard this quote before. In 1983, when Ruminaja Ali (Shaikh Al Badi x Bint Magidaa) was selected as the United States Reserve National Champion stallion, he was as big as you could find, in straight Egyptian breeding. By this time, RDM Maar Hala (El Hilal x Maar Jumana) had produced ET Crown Prince, Halim El Mansour, El Halimaar and Prince Ibn Shaikh. As a broodmare, she had earned the reputation of a proverbial "king-maker", producing one champion son after another. To combine these 2 horses, both having reached the pinnacle of straight Egyptian breeding, was as some people are fond of saying, a "no brainer". In 1986, the "hope" that results from the union of "best" with "best" was foaled, and given the name, Maar Ibn Ali. By this time, David Gardner was getting ready to leave "the industry" and Ruminaja Ali, now 10 years old, would be soon leaving for Lyle & Virginia Bertsch's Zahara Arabian Stud.

Rick & Carolyn Cortesi, of Tucson, Arizona, already interested in the Arabian horse breed, had become fascinated with Egyptian bloodlines, both for the beauty of the horse, as well as its rich history. As they carefully studied the Egyptian horse, one fact became amazingly clear to Carolyn, 

"To acquire foundation blood from an impeccable dam line for the ranch outside of Tucson, Arizona we simply started at the pinnacle - RDM Maar Hala - the leading dam of straight Egyptian champions. By producing 8 Class A champions by an amazing 6 different stallions,  Maar Hala's record transcends its lofty title."

Maar Ibn Ali was bred by the late Dr. Felino Cruz of Rancho Bulakenyo. Imagine how Dr. Cruz may have felt, to go from not finding a straight Egyptian mare, to purchasing RDM Maar Hala, and then, to breed her to one of the top stallions of his time. It was surreal, I'm sure!

Invited by Dr. Cruz, Carolyn and her husband visited Rancho Bulakenyo.  It was during this visit that Carolyn met the then 3-year old Maar Ibn Ali and fell absolutely head-over-heels in love with the young stallion. She had to have him, at any cost. Dr. Cruz's son, Jody remembers the visit,

"Really was a very good colt. A very nice lady named Carol Cortesi ended up with him." 

The 1994 Maar Ibn Ali daughter, Sagali, photographed by Brandy Phillips

A proven breeding stallion, he struggled with fertility issues despite siring 20 get, including two Egyptian Event top ten mares:

  • 1989: Maar Ptah (x Sahaara by Ansata Abbas Pasha)*
  • 1989: VK Maarissa (x Princess Nefisaa by Ruminaja Atallah) produced 3 foals
  • 1990: Ali Shaikh (x *Bint Hasanet by Wahag)*
  • 1991: Maar Shamali (x Bint Sayaf by *Sayaf) produced 2 foals
  • 1991: Maar Xcimene (x Balima El Ajzaa by Balo)produced 2 foals
  • 1991: Voltaren Al Ahraam (x SRA Luiba by Shatal)*
  • 1992: Maarisa Ali (x Shaimama by Shaikh Al Badi) produced 1 foal
  • 1992: Maartahari (x SRA Bahiya by Ansata Abu Sudan)*
  • 1993: DA Maariah (x Balima El Ajzaa by Balo)*
  • 1994: Bluewater Alishah (x Bint Sayaf by *Sayaf)*
  • 1994: Enchanted Rashaan ( x SRA Luiba by Shatal) Sired 5 get
  • 1994: Maar Jaliya (x SRA Bahiya by Ansata Abu Susan) EE TT, produced 3 foals
  • 1994: Sagali ( x Bint el Saghira by TheEgyptianPrince) produced 4 foals
  • 1994: TR Alimaar (x Shikos Somaliara by Shadar)
  • 1994: DK Madahrena (x Mi Satin Doll by Mi Kaborr) EE TT
  • 1995:  Bluewater Ireana (x Akid Isleta by AK El Zahra Moniet)*
  • 1995: Maar Xcia (x SRA Bahiya by Ansata Abu Sudan) produced 1 foal
  • 1995: Maarja Ala (x BSA Naffata by Zeyn Ibn Morafic)*
  • 1995: DK Novaar (Mi Satin Doll by Mi Kaborr) sired 1 foal
  • 1995: NF Jamaar (x Jewels Jasmine by Ruminaja Bahjat)

* bred by Carolyn Cortesi, Al-Ahraam Arabians

Maar Ibn Ali, Rob Hess photo
Eventually, he was gelded, in favor of widening his impact within what appeared to be a bright multi-discipline show career in both Western Pleasure and Working Hunters under saddle and over fences. In a Facebook comment, Trish Nelson, a horse trainer also from Tucson shares, 

"I had Maar Ibn Ali in barn for years. I showed him to all his wins.  He was a great horse to be around always."

I don't know the circumstances or reasons why Maar Ibn Ali left Arizona but Carolyn Cortesi sold him in 1999 to what would turn out to be, the first (March 1999) of 2 homes (November 2002), both owners residing within the state of Colorado, where it seems that Maar Ibn Ali's life story ends.


***With gratitude, I acknowledge Teri Boese Cox and Brittany N Thompson for the research each person shared on Facebook. I must also thank Dr. Joseph Cruz for all your insight. As always, much appreciated.***

18 May, 2025

Earning a Breed: Social License PT2

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It's been almost a year since I posted a blog about a  social license. I wasn't thinking of posting a 2nd blog on  the topic but over the last few weeks, it seems that everything I have chosen to read, listen or watch, shares common ground via the fragility of social licenses for the equine community. Coincidence? It is a topic that is dominating the minds of many horsepeople. Are you familiar with Noëlle Floyd's Dear Horse World Podcast? 

If you have not tuned in, I recommend it. I listen to the podcast using the Spotify app. Last week, I was listening to Noëlle's interview with David O'Connor, an Olympic Gold medalist in the discipline of eventing, who now serves as Chief of Sport for the United States Equestrian Federation,  studying topics like social license and its affect on the sport horse world. David shared that while 90% of the American population have no interest in horses, these are the very same people who will exert an opinion, if they see something they don't like.  On the other hand, this group of people will accept what you do with horses, if they feel that the horses are being cared for and that you are not placing horses in situations where they don't have a life.

I'm a fan of Tik Maynard, a two-time winner of the Road to the Horse, an extremely popular colt starting competition, held at the Kentucky Horse Park each year. Tik's first book, In the Middle are the Horsemen, documents his experiences as a working student, including the time he spent with David & Karen O'Connor.  I'm not sure that I really know how many times I have read his book, maybe 10 times? 20 times? 50 times? I love it and get something from it, every time I read it. If you haven't yet read the book, I recommend it. Tik has now published his 2nd book, Starting in the Middle, and within it, he shares a conversation he had with David O'Connor, within the context of seeking a mentor's advice as to whether he should/should not participate in the Road to the Horse competition. I had heard David mention the Central Park allegory within Noëlle Floyd's podcast, and now  here I am also reading about it in Tik's book.

"If you can’t train a horse, and explain what it is you are doing, in the middle of Central Park, then you actually can’t do it anymore. Because now images are transferred around the world, a lot of times out of context, and it happens in a heartbeat.”

While listening to the podcast and reading Tik's new book, I kept thinking about our Arabian community, particularly the showing faction, which always seems to be under the most scrutiny,  and to tell you the truth, I'm not exactly sure when we allowed someone to convince us that a scared horse, is a beautiful thing. 

The Three Pitfalls of Social Licence, iedm.org

How will the 90% feel about the practices in the Arabian showring, including but not limited to people shaking bags and chasing horses into the ring, visibly trembling horses who flinch at every sudden movement, bulging eyes exposing the white sclera, horses passing loose manure repeatedly while in the ring.  It's enough for you to get sick and wonder about a humanity that can do such things to horses, while continuing to believe its a good thing.  We need to do something before the 90% shut us down like they have done for Circuses, the Orca shows at Sea World, fox hunting in England, among others. 

Late last week, Denise Hearst of The Swift Runner published her interview with long time Arabian horse lover Nayla Hayek of the Hanaya Stud. I recommend that you read what Nayla has to say. Nayla wears many roles in our community such as judge, owner, breeder, student, enthusiast. She loves Arabian horses and has for a very long time. Denise asked Nayla if there were showring issues which concerned her, to which Nayla replied, 

"Everyone who has spent more than five years in the so-called international show scene must be concerned with what is happening now. I resigned from judging some years ago because I no longer wanted to be part of this community. It is more a Las Vegas Casino show attitude which is growing, rather than an elegant presentation and judging of our excellent breed."

Do you find it significant that an Arabian horse lover like Nayla Hayek says she no longer wanted to be part of the community? I sure do. That's how serious this issue of social license has become. 

The "fall from grace" suffered by Charlotte Dujardin, who at one time was a much admired, respected, even beloved Olympic dressage rider, should convince any one of us over the consequences from losing a social license. None of us are immune nor will we be relieved from working hard to earn our social license each day.  It's real and it's not going away. David O'Connor, in closing, said that the reality of the world we live in is that the cell phone is not going away nor is the internet going away, these communication and information sources are only going to grow more significant in our daily lives. We really need to learn how to harness them, so they work for us, instead of against us, in order to protect our community from any action taken by the 90%.


17 May, 2025

Catalyst

Julie Koch recently posted the above ad in her popular Facebook group, Reliving Arabian Horse History. The ad was originally published in the May 1975 issue of the Arabian Horse Breed Journal. What grabbed my attention was not so much the photo of *Lewisfield Magic; he's beautiful, I agree, but it is the mention of a stallion named Moniets Echo, just under the photo of *Lewisfield Magic (I circled it in red for you) who is offered for sale. 

Who could predict that Julie's post would be the catalyst in revisiting a long ago beloved horse, whose memory still inspires my being with an amazing sense of wonder?

Moniets Echo (*Ibn Moniet El Nefous  x Sirbana)

Sired by *Ibn Moniet El Nefous, Moniets Echo was out of a combined source mare (combined source because her pedigree blends the sources of Babson breeding with *Turfa and Sirecho) whose name was Sirbana, a 1959 Sirecho daughter out of Habbana (Ibn Fadl x Bint Habba), bred by Mrs. John E. Ott. As much as I love the IMEN/Babson crosses, Sirbana is the reason why this particular horse, Moniets Echo, stood out, as her name also appears in the ad, as the dam of Moniets Echo. I know of this mare, Sirbana, as she was owned by Joe and Sharon Ferriss. You will remember that she was "the totally noble in a quiet way" mare featured in the blog about the Muluq horses Her expression in the photo that Joe shared with me, still haunts me, as it is the same "look" that I remember Princeton Maarena giving me. Gosh, how I wish to go back, if there was a way to go back in time, for only a second, to just touch Mimi.

I've never forgotten how Joe described Sirbana within a discussion about Bedouin preferences in Edouard Al-Dahdah's blog, Daughter of the Wind:  

"our first Al Khamsa mare, Sirbana, born 1959, did not have a dished face at all, yet with her large eyes, broad forehead, balanced head proportions and graceful mitbah many who saw her thought she was beautiful. "

Sirbana was a hugely prolific mare, having foaled 14 foals over her lifetime. The first 5 foals were bred by Dr. Keith Krausnick, of Shar-Char Farm, the same breeder of the mare, Sirhabba:

  • 1963: Shar Negana by Negem
  • 1964: Shar Dougana by Negem
  • 1965: Char Bagem by Negem
  • 1966: Char Faban by Fa-Turf
  • 1969: Shar Ebeya by Fa-Serrab
  • 1971: Farah Mirbana by Mahrouss

By 1970, Dr. Krausnick had sold the mare to someone else (Al Khamsa records the breeder of Farah Sirbana as the Krausnicks but this may be that the registration was still in the Krausnicks name at the time of the filly's birth), who were the actual breeders of her Mahrouss foal, as well as the breeders of her 1972 Char Iswid filly, Farah Sirbana (the breeder of Farah Sirbana is recorded by Al Khamsa as Bar JF Ranch). In 1973, she was shipped to Bentwood Farm, to be bred to *Ibn Moniet El Nefous, producing the English Pleasure champion, Moniets Echo in 1974. The following year, she was bred to *Lewisfield Magic, eventually producing a colt by him, retained by Conquistadores Arabians. By 1976, Joe Ferriss had already been following Sirbana closely and learned that Conquistadores Arabians in New Mexico was offering Sirbana for sale. Joe loved the mare; she would be his first Al Khamsa mare at the time. Joe had already arranged with Walter Schimanski to breed Sirbana to Lothar, which he tried soon after the purchase but unfortunately, she didn't settle.  Joe tried again in 1977 and this time, the attempt was successful, producing a colt in 1978 whom Joe named Fa Manial, an elegant stallion who was taller than both his sire and dam, at maturity. Joe eventually sold tge colt to Vernon and Alice Bean of Illinois. They kept the stallion his whole life, breeding a number of foals sired by him. In these days, there was no AI, mares were bred by live cover, which meant that the mares were shipped to where the stallion was located. Joe and Sharon Ferriss were concerned over the stress to Sirbana and  began, as an alternative, to lease stallions, specifically selected to complement Sirbana. Their strategy worked, as they bred her next 4 foals, each one a catalyst or touchstone to the beauty that Sirbana's bloodlines foretold that she could produce, when carefully bred to a stallion perfectly suited for her:

  • 1980: Nasrab by DU Fadl
  • 1981: Fa El Echo by Char Echo
  • 1982: Fa Nasr by Char Echo
  • 1985: Bint Sirbana by Char Echo

How prolific as a broodmare was Sirbana? It is interesting to note that Sirbana's bay filly by Char Echo, Bint Sirbana  was born when Sirbana was 26 years old! Joe shared that Bint Sirbana was a bay version of her dam, a beautiful mare, regal, her body shaped by long, flowing curvey lines. By the time that Bint Sirbana was born, Joe had made the conscious decision to no longer breed horses and Bint Sirbana was sold to the Poe family in North Carolina who loved and cared for the mare, all her life.

Bint Sirbana (Char Echo x Sirbana), photo by Joe Ferriss

In the Muluq blog I wrote that the Muluq horses are not only beautiful and charming; the horses possess a contemplative expression, conveying a deeper level of emotional intelligence than we ever realized. Raswan states that the Bedouin called this, Yuminuna B'il Ghayb, which translated, means "it is within them, the psychic power of an angel." It is extremely interesting that not only did her sire possess this unique expression but her dam did as well and in this Joe Ferriss photo, we see that the daughter had a very similar expression as well. Visually, this makes Raswan's words, written way back in the forties,come alive all over again. In these days that are fueled by anger, intolerance and lack of respect, these horses are like a salve to heal these emotional wounds and remind us of the responsibility we all have to treat each other with dignity and kindness.

10 May, 2025

Shooting Star or Great Comet?


My great-grandmother's maiden name was Bilbao, which is also the name of a port city in northern Spain, long recognized as part of the Basque country. The name, which is derived from the Basque words, "Bil", meaning "by a river" and "bai," meaning "a place," reflects the city's location, at the Nervion  river, approximately 10 miles south from the Bay of Biscay. An industrial and economic center, Bilbao has evolved to become a noteworthy cultural city, with a vibrant art community. As wonderful as that may be, what captures my interest is the age of Bilbao. In America, the oldest of our cities is less than three hundred years old; while Bilbao, was one of 4 cities founded in the fourteenth century. 

A few weeks ago, on this site, it was all about the Polish-bred Spanish stallions: Wan Dyck, Vasco De Gama and Egipto and that's how I stumbled onto Bilbao's photo. He has nothing to do with any of the 3 horses and everything to do with where I found myself that day, reading about long ago horses and considering what their influence may be in the present day. Bred by Nowy Dwor Stud, Bilbao was a Comet son, out of a Wielki Szlem daughter, tracing in his matriline, back to the 1835 mare Sahara, who was purchased in Saudi Arabia by Count Juliusz Dzieduszycki, as a 10-year old for Jarczowce Stud in Poland. The Count purchased in total seven stallions and four mares and would export these horses to the breeding farm he had inherited from his father, Jarczowce. Sahara would eventually become the foundress of a significant line in Polish Arabian horse breeding. 

Of all the Arabian horse farms in Poland, Nowy Dwor exerted a significant impact upon Polish Arabian horse breeding. When I think this through, I wonder if Nowy Dwor's impact is because many of the lost and reclaimed Arab horses, as a result of World War II, were sent to Nowy Dwor or if it has more to do with the heroic efforts made by the Tyszkowski family to save many of the horses entrusted to their care. Their diligence in keeping the horses' out of the hands of the invading armies, insured their precious bloodlines to remain in Poland, instead of another nation. Whether rescue of the valuable blood in the hands of the Tyszkowskis or other Polish people enabled Nowy Dwor to become significant, it worked, as 8 years later (after WWII ended), Comet (Abu Afas x Carmen) was foaled at Nowy Dwor. There are 2 kinds of people in this world: those who admire Comet and recognize the transformation he would initiate in Polish breeding and then, the skeptics, who point to Comet's lackluster racing career. I have always thought it a bit interesting that our breed, as laser focused on the matriline as it is, would be raised in countries with an entirely different focus, that of the sire line. While Comet is recognized as a phenomenal broodmare sire and from where his true worth is felt, many of the skeptics point to the lack of sons, as a sign of Comet's weakness as a sire. Comet produced 38 sons, of which 5 sons were retained for breeding, the rest sold,  including Bilbao, one of several Comet sons who went to Sweden. Under the ownership of Arvid Aaby-Ericsson, Bilbao sired several successful purebreds,  including the 1980 Swedish National Champion mare, Cayenne, in addition to also siring several champion warmbloods, Shagya Arabians and Anglo-Arabian horses. Comet, the bright shining star of hope for Poland that he was, died at only 11 years old,  making his get even more valuable than they already were, in furthering his influence. This is what the skeptics have failed to realize.

09 May, 2025

My Mother's Day Story

When Marsha Williams was a child, she discovered the Arabian horse inside a general reference book she had found in the library. Her heart pounded in her ears, when she saw him. She can still remember tracing the horse's silhouette, over and over with her finger. She promised herself that one day, she would own an Arabian horse of her very own. Horses had always defined who she was and it was only natural that Marsha decided to dedicate her life to the Egyptian Arabian horse. There wasn't anything else she could do, as significant as working with these special horses.

Marsha became a successful trainer, taking green horses and preparing them for their amateur owners. She had been working with a head-strong Ansata Abbas Pasha daughter who had been proving herself to be a bit too difficult for her owner. With  tender loving care, Marsha had seen the mare blossom in her training. There wasn't much the mare wouldn't do for Marsha. However, the mare's owner grew tired of all the time she required, on top of the dirt, hair and the unique smell. So Maggie Iacovino paid Marsha an impromptu visit. "You know Marsha, I thought I might find some personal fulfillment in this horsie thing and you know what, I haven't. I don't really like it. It's more than what I want to invest of myself, so, she's yours. Marsha was so stunned, she let out a gasp. Maggie looked at her and then said,  "I watched the interaction between you and Abby. She loves you. So, I signed the registration papers over to you. She is your horse now Marsha. Love her and one day, if you have the opportunity to do so, pay it forward." she said, as she pushed a white envelope into Marsha's hands. Marsha was stunned. Suddenly, here was the encouragement she had been praying for. Was she dreaming?

She had heard of a couple who owned  a young and upcoming stallion, recently imported from the EAO. Marsha had seen his photo spread in Arabian Horse World and had instantly liked the charismatic stallion. Now that Abby was her horse, Marsha wasted no time in contacting them. A year later, the stallion had tragically died but not before her miracle mare had been bred to him and eventually, given birth to an exquisite filly, whom she had called MW Milagro, her personal miracle. This filly matured into a beautiful mare, a Class A Halter Champion, who was coveted by many people. She had received a number of offers for her, which she had turned down. She had briefly considered one offer, as it was more money than she had ever earned in her life. It would have lessened the pressure of running a cash-strapped business and allowed her to renovate the farm with all of the improvements that would make her life easier. However, to have sold  "Milly" was unthinkable and in return,  the mare had rewarded Marsha with several daughters, insuring the survival of this family, at her farm. Marsha's hands lovingly caressed the shiny red neck of Milly's grandson. Milagroso had been a little on the small side, when he was born but under Marsha's care, he prospered and now stood over 15 hands. "You know Matt, this colt's dam was a beautiful mare. I loved her. She was like a clone of her dam, MW Milagro, whom I called Milly. I almost called it quits, the day she died. I couldn't even begin to think, how I would make it, from one day to the next, without her. Like her dam, she was my friend and my confidante. She was carrying another foal by this colt's sire and I was hoping for a filly." she said. Matt looked across the paddock, to a couple of mares who stood with their eyes slowly closing, as they dozed in the sun. Marsha's voice was starting to break and he knew where she was headed next. Matt couldn't bear to hear the words he believed that she would soon be saying. "I love these horses and I care what happens to them. It's hard to let them go. Don't know if I can do it. I am so confused Matt, one moment, I am convinced that this is what I need to do and then, a few seconds later, I no longer feel so strong in my conviction" she explained, as tears started forming in her eyes.

Matt had been introduced to Marsha at a breeders conference by a friend of Matt's wife. Matt was new to horses. Actually, it was Darla who loved the horses and Matt, well, he loved Darla and would do anything to make her happy. Matt thought of Darla and somewhere deep inside of him, he still felt the ache. "Would he make it through any day, without missing Darla?" he asked himself but he knew the answer. He didn't believe that he would ever stop missing Darla. Darla had meant everything to him. It would be almost three years, this coming May. It all had happened so fast, it seemed like Darla was there one minute and then, gone the next. While getting ready for their annual Fourth of July barbecue, an overwhelming fatigue had robbed Darla of the energy she needed, to create one of the most anticipated family gatherings of the year. The following week, Darla and Matt had visited the doctor and as a precaution, had a round of blood tests. A couple of weeks later, the doctor delivered the grim news. As they crossed the parking lot of the medical building, Matt promised Darla that the following year, he would buy her the Arabian Horse she had always dreamed of, in celebration of her victory over her illness. He was determined to fight this with all he had. At the end of August, shortly before Labor Day, Darla had breathed her last breath. Matt was devastated and without Darla, he was lost. Consumed by grief, Matt stayed at home, surrounded by pictures of his beautiful wife.

Six months later, on a business trip down south, he opened the complimentary airline magazine and read an article about alternative investment vehicles, which included breeding and raising Egyptian Arabian horses. Matt remembered the promise he had made to Darla, in her last days. With a new found fervor, Matt threw himself into the many reference books that Darla had collected. He purchased a subscription to Arabian Horse World Magazine. Matt focused on learning everything he could about the Arabian horse. When he was ready, he called Darla's friend, Nora. It was a timely call, as Nora was making plans to attend a Pyramid Society breeders conference and had suggested that Matt register for the event. It was at the conference where Matt had met Marsha Williams. Nora told Matt that Marsha, once a bright student with an exciting academic future ahead of her, had given up a full scholarship to Princeton University, so that she could work for a guy named Victor, a small preservation breeder who had spent a lifetime carefully breeding within an obscure, rare group of horses, descended from a key desert horse named *Sabra, a mare who had been imported from the Nejd region of Saudi Arabia. Victor had discovered, quite by accident, that alternately crossing the mares of this family with highly refined Saqlawi stallions produced a classic-looking horse. In one of Victor's travels, he met the American-born Saqlawi stallion named Ansata Abbas Pasha and strategically, using his best mares, had incorporated his bloodline into his program. Victor had sold a mare to an older woman, who had a penchant for collecting things that many others wanted but could not afford to buy. It was this woman, Maggie Iacovino, who had gifted Abby to Marsha. Matt spoke with Marsha during the conference, learning more about her breeding program and  of all the key horses who figured prominently. Marsha had suggested that he come out to the ranch, as she had two fillies for sale, that would make phenomenal foundation mares for a beginning program. While Matt liked what Marsha had said, there were other farms and ranches that he wanted to visit more. So, he never made it to Marsha's farm.

Matt had been traveling all over the United States, visiting breeders, taking lots of pictures and notes but he always came up short, trying to find just the right Arabian horse. He knew this horse existed, he just couldn't find the horse. So, Matt had called Marsha and made arrangements to finally visit her farm. As Matt drove up her long driveway, he saw a large group of mares grazing in the front paddock. Even at a distance, Matt recognized something special. Smooth of body and harmonious of build, Marsha's mares were unique; their physical qualities different from the other horses that he had seen. Their iridescent white coats, made even brighter by their black skin, accentuated every curve, enhancing their silhouette. The large, round and very black eye captured the twinkle of the sun, intensifying the depth and shape of the eye, like a pool of melted obsidian. The mare's nostrils, large and delicately curved, underscored the overall beauty of the mares’ heads, which looked as if they were chiseled out of the finest stone. The mare’s necks were long and swan-like, with extra length in the poll and a finer throat latch than he remembered ever seeing. Powerful shoulders met a closely-coupled, strong and level back, supported by deep, well-sprung ribs and balanced with round, well-muscled hindquarters. An extreme high-set tail, proudly carried, like a banner, waved in the breeze, As Matt slowed down to look at the mares, he heard loud trumpeting neighing, ricocheting from somewhere on the right side of his car. The powerful sound filled the inside of his car, the outside air and the surrounding hills. As he turned his head around to look, he saw what appeared at first to be a red lick of flame, burning down the hill, at a high rate of speed and coming towards him. "What the heck?" Matt cried out loud.

The stallion had seen the man driving the vehicle up the driveway. "Who was this man and what did he want with his mares?"  the stallion thought as he galloped down hill towards the driveway. A few feet from the fence line, he turned to his left effortlessly and slowed down to a floating, suspended trot, as he snorted deeply, to let the man know that he was there. As beautiful as the mares were,  the stallion defied description. He was extraordinary. Matt had never seen anything quite like this horse before. He was what the old-time cowboys called a three-circle horse, incredibly balanced, with a body comprised of rounded lines and curves. The powerful shoulders were set at an angle which allowed the horse so much freedom, that he flew over the ground with enormous strides. His neck was long, swan-like, with a pronounced arch, gently curving upwards to meet a head that was short and wide, with a prominent and very detailed bone structure. His back was short and strong, with a tail that was set high and curled over his back, accentuating his short, smooth and strong top line. He was exquisite and to Matt, was the masterpiece of Marsha's  program . Matt was in awe. He had to have the horse. He needed him. At first, Marsha would not even hear of it. "He is not for sale Matt, not at any price. Not at all. I have waited a long time for this horse to be born. I dreamed about him and now that I finally have him, it makes no sense to let him go." she said emphatically, leaving no doubt in Matt's mind that he had decided to fall in love with a horse that could never be his.

When Marsha called, almost a year later, Matt was surprised by her phone call and by the news that circumstances beyond her control, was forcing her to liquidate, to raise the cash she desperately needed. Matt didn't even wait a second to consider whether he should or shouldn't. Granted, the money Marsha was asking, was more money than he ever thought he would pay for a horse but the image of the red stallion, still burned in his heart and well, he had to have the horse. Matt accepted Marsha's offer.

So, now, having driven with his new trailer all day, to pick up his horse, Marsha was having second thoughts.  Matt was feeling anxious, as the dread filled him. "I am so confused Matt, one moment, I am convinced that this is what I need to do and then, a few seconds later, I no longer feel so strong in my conviction." He watched Marsha, as her face suddenly changed to a look of resolve, as if someone had whispered something into her ear, giving her strength.  Marsha drew in a very deep breath and said, "but then Matt, I thought of Maggie Iacovino and how her generosity made it possible for me to even get to this point, where I can significantly impact the life of another person, like Maggie had done for mine with Abby. She told me to pay it forward, so, Matt, he's yours, I want you to take him and help him to become the star he is destined to become. That is his destiny, to be nothing less than a star."

As Matt headed home, he was overwhelmed with happiness. He thought of the coming weekend and realized that Sunday was Mother's Day. Finally, the promise he had made to Darla, had come true. He couldn't think of a more appropriate time of year for this miracle to happen. Even through death, Darla continued to live victoriously and her dreams, now helped Matt to discover joy, when he felt he had none. Matt had found a new purpose, a new direction in his life. He felt lighter and happier than he had felt in a long time. The world suddenly felt more exciting and more hopeful. He was headed home with Darla's horse, the horse that Darla had once dreamed of owning and now, he would carry on for her, honor her, with a horse that she would have chosen and been proud of. "Happy Mother's Day Darla...I love you." Matt whispered, as a tear ran down his face.

Happy Mother's Day to all, both human and equine.